Live Update: Onyeka Onwenu’s Final Wish: A Simple Farewell

Poignant reflection on her life and final wishes, renowned Nigerian singer and actress Onyeka Onwenu had made clear her desire for a modest and private farewell. Onwenu, who passed away recently at the Reddington Hospital in Lagos following a collapse at a birthday party, had articulated her burial preferences in a 2021 opinion piece for Premium Times.

In her heartfelt statement, Onwenu requested a burial that was “quick, quiet, and private.” She wanted her loved ones to focus on celebrating her life rather than indulging in excessive mourning. Onwenu envisioned a gathering where friends and family could come together for a simple meal, sharing jokes and fond memories in her honor. “Celebrate me with prayers, lunch or dinner afterwards. Share some jokes about me and laugh,” she had written, emphasizing a light-hearted approach to her passing. “Make merriment and then go about your business,” she added, highlighting her wish for a joyous remembrance.

Onwenu’s sentiments also extended to a critique of the extravagant displays often associated with Nigerian funerals. She expressed discomfort with the lavish spending frequently observed, particularly during times of economic difficulty. Referring to the highly publicized and opulent funeral of Obi Cubana’s mother, Onwenu advocated for a more humble and meaningful way of honoring the deceased. “I am very uncomfortable with the lavish display of wealth on any occasion, especially in a time of hardship and lack for most others,” she stated, underscoring her belief in a more restrained approach to such ceremonies.

Throughout her illustrious career, Onyeka Onwenu made indelible contributions across various fields. As a musician, actress, and activist, her work spanned music, film, advocacy, journalism, and politics. She served as the chair of the Imo State Council for Arts and Culture and gained recognition as a judge on the X Factor series. Her notable works include the timeless songs “One Love” and “You and I,” and her acclaimed autobiography, “My Father’s Daughter.”

Onwenu’s legacy is marked not only by her artistic achievements but also by her unwavering commitment to social issues and cultural reflection. Her final wishes serve as a testament to her values, urging a celebration of life that embraces simplicity and joy.