Toke Makinwa Urges Women To Marry Men Who Call After Arguments

Media personality and influencer Toke Makinwa has offered relationship advice to women, urging them to prioritize emotional maturity over pride when choosing a life partner.

According to Ireporter Online, Makinwa encouraged women to pay close attention to how a man responds after disagreements, noting that his actions during such moments can reveal his true character and approach to relationships.

She explained that a healthy relationship is built on communication and care, stressing that a good partner should not allow conflicts to create prolonged silence or emotional distance. Instead, she said, he should be willing to reach out, ensure his partner is okay, and make genuine efforts to resolve misunderstandings.

Makinwa further emphasized that empathy, understanding, accountability, and effective communication are more valuable than ego in sustaining a successful marriage. She maintained that a man who is willing to listen, acknowledge his mistakes, and work toward reconciliation is better suited for a lasting relationship than one who withdraws or refuses to take responsibility after an argument.

Sharing her thoughts, she wrote, “Marry the man who calls you after an argument just to make sure you’re okay. Not the one who leaves you alone with your tears. Choose the man who stays when things get hard and wants to understand you, not defeat you. A man who can pause, hold you, and say ‘I’m sorry’ because your relationship matters more to him than his ego.”