Despite Donating His Kidney And Sending Me to School, I Can’t Marry Him Due to His Lack of Education and Ambition- Lady Cries Out 

Despite Donating His Kidney And Sending Me to School, I Can’t Marry Him Due to His Lack of Education and Ambition- Lady Cries Out

A woman has sought advice from relationship expert Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah concerning the challenges she is currently grappling with regarding family expectations. Her parents and siblings are pressuring her about a man who has gone above and beyond for her, including donating a kidney during her kidney problems, establishing a shop for her brothers, supporting her parents, and financing her university education.

Despite these gestures, she declined the man’s marriage proposal, citing his lack of formal education as the reason for her refusal.

Dear Sir,

My name is Jane, and I find myself entangled in a complex relationship at the moment. A man, whose name I prefer to keep private, has been a steadfast pillar of support for my family for over six years. Recently, he proposed to me for marriage, but I declined his offer due to his lack of formal education.

However, I must confess that he has been incredibly generous and supportive towards my family. He has assisted my parents with their medical expenses, sponsored my university education, and even went as far as donating one of his kidneys to me two years ago.

However, marrying a man who is both uneducated and lacks ambition raises significant concerns for me. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and my apprehensions about his educational background and lack of ambition weigh heavily on my mind.

Despite this, my siblings and parents are insistent that I should proceed with the marriage. I am now contemplating fleeing abroad to escape this mounting pressure. What should I do in this challenging situation? Your guidance would be greatly appreciated.

Dear readers, I seek your advice on what you think she should do in this challenging situation. Feel free to share your comments and insights.

Source iReporteronline.