Deyemi Okanlawon: My Wife Is My Last Resort When Life Gets Tough

According to Ireporter Online, Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has opened up about how he manages emotional pressure and the support system he relies on during difficult moments in his life.

Speaking in an interview with Dear Ife, Okanlawon revealed that his wife is the first person that comes to mind whenever he is overwhelmed by challenges. However, he noted that he is often mindful not to disturb her frequently, as she has her own professional commitments alongside family responsibilities.

The actor explained that in rare situations where the pressure becomes unbearable, he sometimes wakes his wife at night to speak with her and draw emotional comfort.

He further disclosed that his wife is not his only source of support, as he has intentionally built a wider support network that includes a therapist, mentors, and close friends whom he can turn to for guidance and emotional relief when necessary.

Okanlawon emphasized the importance of men not bottling up their struggles, noting that seeking help is essential for mental and emotional well-being.

He was quoted as saying, “When the thing is just too hard, there’s my wife. She’s not the first because she’s dealing with her own business and raising the family. But when it’s hitting me too hard, I’ll wake her in the middle of the night and tell her to help me.”

He also added, “My job is to protect the people around me. If gbege happens here now, the chances are I’m going to step in front. It’s what needs to happen. There’s no excuse. You also have to be aware enough to find healing.”